Hello Papa Miko:) I’m in love with a married man and want him to end his unhappy marriage. He doesn’t have any kids. I’ve known him since 4 years now. We have gone through ups and downs, including leaving him when he didn’t leave his wife within the time period that he promised. Then we got in touch again and have agreed to speak as friends so as to not get emotionally hurt again. But we still flirt with each other, still have feelings for each other and are still attracted to each other.

We understand one another really well and can just be ourselves. We talk very often and also discuss things we would like to do together like travel etc if he were single or to become single.

He almost left his marriage recently because they got into a big fight but then decided to give it another chance again.
I know that I can love him and make him happier. But how do I make him leave his wife? I avoid getting physically involved or getting too emotional with him since I don’t want to get hurt again if he never leaves his wife.

I want him to leave his marriage, and start fresh with him as good friends and slowly aim for something more.
I’m 40 and a divorcee with no kids and have a good career as Nurse. He is 41.

Please help me if you can. I don’t want time to just waste and pass by and wish and imagine what could be.
Thank you for your time to read this Papa Miko. Please help me make him leave his wife for me.